- Ever wondered why do all bad things happen at the same time?
- Why do all problems suddenly emerge together right after the first one appears?
- Is there a connection between bad moods and attracting problems?
Yes, there is a strong connection between bad feelings and attracting problems.
The answer to all of these questions is simple, we don’t attract problems when we feel bad, but we start seeing other problems that were already there when we feel bad.
It is also worth mentioning that being pessimistic attracts negative energy.
Feeling Bad and Negative Thinking
When a big problem happens, most of us start to think negatively. These negative thoughts force us to think of more problems and scan for any other bad things in our lives.
This is where we start noticing minimal problems that we didn’t notice before, like the few pounds that we gained lately, the small fight we had with a friend or the car that needs to be fixed.
Even though these small problems were already there, we weren’t giving them much weight because our mood was positive, but as soon as our mood shifted from the positive state to the negative state, all of these problems suddenly emerged made us feel even worse.
How to prevent problems from accumulating that way?
Depression can be nothing more than the result of the accumulation of lots of unsolved problems.
If you kept ignoring your problems and putting them behind your back, you may end up depressed, and even if they were small problems, they will suddenly emerge altogether when you feel bad and appear ten times bigger.
Of course, you should try to push away negative thinking when you feel bad, but how can you kill negative thoughts based on true unsolved problems?
When you face a problem that affects your mood, do your best to think positively, but before you even take this step, make sure that you don’t have lots of accumulated problems left without solutions, even if they were small ones because they will all emerge together as soon as the big one happens.
