Many people fail to attract the ones they want because they have false beliefs about attraction. For example, a girl might believe that she needs to look like a supermodel to attract a guy, while people fall for people who are much less attractive than the ones they used to dream of.
The reason people settle for ordinary persons because the process of attraction is governed by the subconscious mind, which doesn’t always use logic to ignite emotions.
Attachment leads to attraction.
Once someone gets used to a person or believes that someone can help him meet some of his emotional needs, he will become attached to him. If that other person didn’t show up as frequently as expected, the attachment grows and might even turn into a passion. As soon as you capture someone’s attention, don’t always be available.
Attachment happens if it’s not impossible.
While some people fall in love with celebrities, most people would still never fall in love with a person with whom they don’t interact directly.
This means that being available around the person you like would certainly trigger attachment, provided that you act correctly whenever you are around him. Don’t confuse this with the previous point;
you need to be available until attachment starts to happen, and once you see that happening, you need to be less known.
Show off Indirectly
People hate others who show off directly, but they adore those who show off indirectly!! Try to tell the new people you just met that you have a great expensive car parking outside and see their reaction.
Now compare this to putting your car keys on the table in front of them without talking about it. In the second case, you will be regarded as more resourceful, and you will earn a higher status without being labeled showy.
In short, help people discover useful things about you without talking about them.
Predictability kills passion
People get bored with the things they are familiar with because they can expect the next event before it happens.
The same goes for predictable people; if everything you did was predictable and expected, people will get bored quickly. Instead, try to confuse the person you like by sending mixed signals;
that would be enough to let him think about you more often.
Thinking leads to attachment.
If you managed to occupy a part of the other person’s mind, then most probably, this will let him become attached to you over time.
Its a game of attention, the more attention you get, the more attached will the other person be
