Ask any woman about the man she would like to be with, and she will respond by saying that he must be nice and caring. Wait until this woman gets into a relationship, and you will find her chasing a jerk who mistreats her and who even abuses her.
For the first instance, this might seem confusing, but when you get to know women better, you will find that what they say is way far from what they do, Not because they are liars but rather because they don’t quite understand how their minds work.
When a woman talks about her dream partner, she uses her conscious mind, but her subconscious mind quickly takes over to determine whether she will develop emotions for him or not when she meets someone.
So why do women like bad boys and get attracted to them?
A typical bad boy usually possesses the following traits: He is Cocky, puts himself first, arrogant, does what he wants with disregard to others’ opinion, not by any means nice and mysterious.
Just like men are hard-wired to get attracted to beautiful women are hard-wired to get attracted to masculinity. Unlike men, women respond to many cues across different domains, and that’s why they are more selective when it comes to mate selection.
Women interpret a bad boy’s traits as signs of masculinity and confidence, two things that attract women the most.
People find others more attractive when they believe that members of the opposite sex want them as well.
Bad boys mistreat women and, as a result, send them the indirect message that other women are waiting in line in case they decided to leave.
Add to this the excitement that results from dealing with an unpredictable and mysterious person, and you will quite get why this type attracts women.
The ethical bad boy
We have always been against sacrificing good values to reach other goals, which is called cheap success. That’s why you should never mistreat women just because you want to attract them.
So can you become a bad boy in a good way?
Yes, you can!
Build your confidence and believe in yourself. Don’t be needy else; you will push women away. Be more assertive and stand up for your rights. Be cocky in a funny way without hurting anybody’s emotions.
In other words, you can become a bad boy without being really bad, and women will still get attracted to you.