Why being Mysterious Works in Attracting Others?

There is a debate between people about whether being mysterious can make you more attractive to the opposite sex or not.

Many people haven’t concluded that issue because they don’t know enough information about how the mind works and how attraction really happens.

According to the psychology of falling in love, the best thing you can do to attract a person to you is to appear mysterious and reveal very little information about yourself and your intentions.

But why being mysterious works? In this article, I will answer this question and give you enough scientific reasons to reassure you about the answer.

Being mysterious and the psychology of attraction.

In my previous article about the psychology of attraction, I explained how every person gets attracted to completely different things based on his background and past experiences.

The best way to make someone fall in love with you is first to understand the things that attract him then use them to impress him.

So what does being mysterious has to do with this?
Most people make a mistake when trying to attract someone because they try to impress others using a general formula, forgetting that what works for a person might turn off the other person.

The beauty about being mysterious is that it allows the mind of your target to wander and to imagine that you have all the qualities that he is looking for.

The human mind always tries to fill the gaps with information that can make it happy. When you become mysterious after showing few positive points, then your target’s mind will assume that you have lots of other positive qualities, and so he will become more attracted to you.

It’s as if you gave the person the starting point and then allowed his mind to visualize whatever he would love to find in you. If you didn’t become mysterious, you might reveal things that turn the person off, but if you allowed him to do the visualization, he would only imagine what he loves to find.

Being mysterious and showing your intentions

Showing your intentions at an early stage is always a great mistake. Before you can tell someone that you like him, you first need to make sure that he is really into you, and that won’t happen before you confuse him for some time.

Being mysterious and not showing your intentions, in the beginning, forces the person to think about you more often and to become more confused. This confusion then turns into deep attachment.

A researcher found that people quickly forget about resolved matters but always remember unfinished businesses. So, in short, if a person is unsure that you like him, then he will never stop thinking about you.

If you remained mysterious for a while, then a person’s attachment towards you will become strong enough to let him hold on to you even after revealing your intentions.

In short, being mysterious works.