Men are so simple. They get turned on by any woman who looks healthy and sexy. The hourglass body shape, the full lips, the symmetry of the face, and the low waist to hip ratio are all indicators of the presence of a good supply of the female hormone that promotes sexiness.
A man can make up his mind about being with a certain woman from the first glance, and as superficial as this seems to be still considered a biological fact.
This doesn’t mean that men can choose life partners just because they look good, but it means that men will at least get aroused by women who are physically attractive even if they know nothing else about them.
On the other hand, women are more complicated, yes they do care about looks, but the way they are made prevents them from being turned on unless the man meets certain important criteria that they are looking for.
The difference between the biological wiring of men and women
I once read a statement that explains it all; “men need a place to have sex, women need a reason!”
The research found that women don’t get aroused before a man meets their important subconscious criteria they are looking for in a man. In other words, a woman can become turned on after she realizes that a certain man can provide her with security, protection, or whatever she is looking for.
This is why there is no drug like Viagra to enhance sexual performance for women. It’s because a woman’s mind gets involved and prevents her from getting turned on if the wrong man is present.
This is also another cause of sexual problems that happen between men and women after marriage. If the woman lost respect for her man or felt that he is not man enough, she might not experience any arousal during the sexual process.
What attracts women?
Apart from physical attraction, women get attracted to dominant men, alpha males, and bad boys.
Women are also attracted to resourceful men and ambitious ones. An expensive watch can attract a woman to a man the same way a woman’s looks can attract a man. It’s not that women are materialistic, but it’s just that women are biologically wired to seek the most resourceful man.
Many men with average looks get out of the game early because they believe that women will not get attracted to them. However, the good news is that even if the woman doesn’t find you that attractive, she can still find you sexually attractive after getting to know more about your personality traits.