Many people wonder how extremely attractive people think. I get emails from readers who ask me how to deal with attractive people, and my answer to these emails usually reminds the reader that understanding how those people think is the best way to deal with them.
There are two types of attractive people, the ones who know that they are attractive and the ones who are unsure of their looks. The latter group is the ones who suffer from self-image problems, and you can safely assume that they think like any ordinary average looking, person.
The second group is the one that I will talk about in this article; the attractive people who know that they are beautiful.
To understand attractive people and know how they think, read this post.
Inside the mind of attractive people
People see the world according to their own beliefs instead of seeing reality.
Those attractive people always assume that everyone likes their looks even if some people lack interest. Contrary to common beliefs, those people aren’t immune from anxiety, but they get anxious for different reasons.
While an average looking person could get anxious because of not being sure whether people will like his looks or not, an extremely attractive person might feel anxious because of:
- Thinking that people will judge him based on popular stereotypes: For example, Blonds are stupid.
- Being in the center of attention: Those people believe that everyone is looking at them, and as a result, some of them become self-conscious, especially around strangers or when the attention comes from people they are not interested in. It’s not uncommon for a beautiful girl to feel extremely anxious when walking in the street full of people who seem uninteresting.
- They fear that people overlook their personalities: Those people know that everyone knows that they are attractive, but on the other hand, they sometimes doubt that people notice the good side of their personalities.
Do attractive people show off?
Yes, they do. While an average-looking person could do his best to show off his elegance or looks, an attractive person might do his best to show off his personality.
People show off when they assume that people are looking down on them. A Guy will try to prove that girls like him when he thinks that people think otherwise. The same goes for attractive people; they will try to show off their personalities when they think that people see nothing but their looks.
Lovely people are not superior, but they have different weak points than the average-looking person.
Attractive people and attention-seeking
Can an attractive person seek attention?
Yes, it can happen. An attractive person always assumes that every person will notice him wherever he is, but sometimes he gets confused when he finds some people not looking towards him or not giving him the attention he used to get.
Ordinary people might strive to get attention when they believe no one is paying attention to them, while attractive people might strive for attention when they start to get less attention than the attention they used to get.
How to deal with extremely attractive people?
First of all, you must understand that you are dealing with ordinary humans who have flaws just like you. It’s just that their flaws are sometimes invisible to you because you see the world according to your own belief system. For you, extremely beautiful might mean flawless or perfect, while for them, beautiful from the outside and empty from the inside might mean inferior.
Had you been in their place for one day, you would never have felt anxious around them.
